Dear Friends and Family,
Friday, December 24, 2021
Christmas Greetings 2021
Saturday, September 11, 2021
9/11 - 20th Anniversary
Today marks the 20th anniversary of 9/11, a day the world stood still. We always will honor and remember those tragically lost in the 9/11 attacks and salute all first responders who went above and beyond for our great nation and who continue to do so every day.
During the attacks in 2001, 2,996 people were killed, 19 hijackers committed murder–suicide, and more than 6,000 others were injured. Of those who perished during the initial attacks and the subsequent collapses of the Towers, 343 were New York City firefighters, 23 were New York City police officers and 37 were officers at the Port Authority. The victims ranged in age from two to 85 years. Approximately 75-80% of the victims were men.
At the Pentagon in Washington, 184 people were killed when hijacked American Airlines Flight 77 crashed into the building.
Near Shanksville, Pennsylvania, 40 passengers and crew members aboard United Airlines Flight 93 died when the plane crashed into a field. It is believed that the hijackers crashed the plane in that location, rather than their unknown target, after the passengers and crew attempted to retake control of the flight deck.
Every picture, video or eye witness report from that tragic day brings back tears. Seeing the faces of firefighters, ordinary business men staring in disbelief at the burning World Trade Centers will forever be seared in to my mind.
Where have you been that tragic day? I just arrived in the US a few days prior, watching in horror the events unfold on TV while babysitting, not really comprehending what that may mean. I will forever remember this day but also the next days/ months that came after that as the empathy, unity and public patriotism was striking and comforting. We all were Americans grieving the losses, frightened what else may come, turning to each for a hug and not caring what race, skin color, sexual orientation, political view or religion one held.
Sunday, February 21, 2021
Snow Much Fun!!!
Y'all, it snowed it Tennessee!
And I'm not talking about just a few flakes but a major ice/ snow storm hit us this week and we had several inches of snow and ice on the ground for an entire week. No school and we went out twice a day to play in it. It is such a rare treat here in the South (in Europe, we would be in the South of Spain) and probably won't happen again in the next 10 years. So we treasured every bit of it and had way too much fun.Wednesday, January 20, 2021
Today is a New Beginning
Over the past two weeks, we have hunkered down and hoped that the news would not be filled with more reports of violence, hate and despair. We have prayed that the president would leave office quietly and that we can all have a smooth transition, going in to the new presidency with hope and decency. And today, the day came and it was great.
The children and I watched most of the inauguration, pulling them away from their school work as this moment in history had to be seen so that we can all remember it. May our daughters' eyes grow wide with possibility, their imaginations run wild with visions, their hearts beat quicker with potential, and the blood in their veins thrum with equality. This is their future. The women of this country fought for this for centuries, they broke hard new ground, and our generation is creating a new standard for representation that our daughters will govern. Luckily our daughters will barely remember a day when a leading woman was not in the White House.
As Jen Hatmaker said so well: "The day belonged to women of color. Dare I say, the day belonged to women." Thus, it is fitting that on Monday we celebrated Martin Luther King, Jr. and listened to his famous speech I Have A Dream. Certainly, dreams and hard work are paying off for Kamala and all the rest of the women of any race or color that will follow her. Thus, I am proud that my bi-racial daughter can witness this and know that she can achieve anything she dreams of and that she can be an equal to any man in this country.
The 46th president of the Unites States, Joseph R. Biden Jr., will have a tough road ahead to unify the country, tackle the Covid-19 crisis, rebuild a decimated economy and repair international alliances. But he set the tone of what is to come and what we expect of him in his inauguration speech: "Politics doesn't have to be a raging fire destroying everything in its path. We have to be different than this. America has to be better than this. I will be a president for all Americans. I will fight as hard for those who did not support me as those who did."
Here is to a new beginning!
Thursday, January 7, 2021
A Sad Day in America's History
Today, my heart is heavy and it hurts looking at footage of the Capitol from yesterday's riots. There are no words (or maybe too many words) to describe what happened on Wednesday, January 6th, 2021 in the capital of the United States and I have no support or respect for the people and the people who incited them. Partially, I actually had to look away from the news. As an American, it is a disgrace and total embarrassment to watch and to know that the sitting president stirred those rioters on to break in to the building. It was the first time in recent history that the Capitol was breached and it took several hours to secure. The ceremonial counting of the electoral votes had to be paused and members of the Congress brought to safety after the mob stormed the building.
This is the first time in the USA’s history that the Confederate flag has appeared inside the halls of the Capitol. The image is significant because of what the flag stands for –– white supremacy and the social and political exclusion of colored people. This is outrageous and should not be accepted.
Once the Capitol was secured again, lawmakers returned from lockdown to the House and Senate chambers, to continue counting the votes nearly six hours after the crowd wreaked havoc on America's symbol of democracy. The House and Senate declared that Biden won the Electoral College by 306 votes to 232 for Trump. Minutes after that a statement from the White House was released that Trump "commits to an orderly transition of power".
On a positive note, on Tuesday Democrats won control of the U.S. Senate with victories in Georgia’s two runoff elections.
It is hard to comprehend why it has to come to this and when this craziness will finally be over. But thru all of this I keep praying for hope and community in our country. We must stay strong together. And teach our children that we don't hate each other just because we differ in size, race, sexuality, religion or opinions but show respect and accept defeat graciously.
Sources:
- https://www.cnn.com/2021/01/07/us/police-response-black-lives-matter-protest-us-capitol/index.html
- https://www.cnn.com/2021/01/07/politics/trump-biden-us-capitol-electoral-college-insurrection/index.html
- https://www.nytimes.com/live/2021/01/06/us/georgia-election-results
- https://indianexpress.com/article/explained/explained-significance-of-the-confederate-flag-waved-inside-the-us-capitol-7137213/
- https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/2020-election/trump-commits-orderly-transition-statement-after-mob-stormed-capitol-n1253223
Sunday, January 3, 2021
My 2020 Book Review
Overall last year, I read 25 books and listened to 35 audiobooks. Below you can see a complete list. I will only highlight the ones I highly recommend but most of the books were pretty good.
Books:
- Night Road Kristin Hannah ★★★★
- Firefly Lane Kristin Hannah ★★★★
- Crenshaw (Read aloud) Katherine Applegate ★★★★
- The Paris Orphan Natasha Lester ★★★★
- The Story Keeper Lisa Wingate ★★★★
- The Boy on the Wooden Box Leon Lyson ★★★★
- Flight of Dreams Ariel Lawhon ★★★★
- The Christmas Promise Donna Vanliere ★★★★
- Noel Street Richard P. Evans ★★★☆
- When in Doubt, Add Butter Beth Harbison ★★★☆
- Someone We Know Shari Lapena ★★★☆
- The Simple Art of Flying (Read aloud) C. Leornardo ★★★☆
- Wir sehen uns unter den Linden Charlotte Roth ★★★☆
- Girl in the Blue Coat Monica Hesse ★★★☆
- The Lost Girls of Paris Pam Jenoff ★★★☆
- Tell me 3 Things Julie Buxbaum ★★★☆
- The German House Annette Hess ★★★☆
- The Librarian of Auschwitz Antonio Iturbe ★★★☆
- Room Emma Donoghue ★★★☆
- Alaskan Holiday Debbie Macomber ★★★☆
- Call Me Mrs. Miracle Debbie Macomber ★★★☆
- Mr. Miracle Debbie Macomber ★★★☆
- Emma in the Night Wendy Walker ★★☆☆
- Candy Corn Murder Leslie Meier ★★☆☆
- 1225 Christmas Tree Lane Debbie Macomber ★★☆☆
- The Huntress Kate Quinn ★★★★
- The Tattooist of Auschwitz Heather Morris ★★★★
- The Hating Game Sally Thorne ★★★★
- 99% Mine Sally Thorne ★★★★
- Giver of Stars Jojo Moyes ★★★★
- The Subtle Art of Giving a F*ck Mark Manson ★★★★
- Echo Pam Munoz Ryan ★★★★
- Night Elie Wiesel ★★★★
- Hannah's War Jan Eliasberg ★★★★
- The Power of Habits C. Duhigg ★★★★
- Code Name Helene Ariel Lawhon ★★★★
- The Mother-Inlaw Sally Hepworth ★★★☆
- Educated Tara Westover ★★★☆
- Sharp Objects Gillian Flynn ★★★☆
- Evvie Starts Over Linda Holmes ★★★☆
- The Friend Zone Abby Jiminez ★★★☆
- Where'd you go Bernadette M. Semple ★★★☆
- The Most Fun we had Claire Lombardo ★★★☆
- The Goldfinch D. Tartt ★★★☆
- The House of Kennedy James Patterson ★★★☆
- The Turn of the Key Ruth Ware ★★★☆
- My Southern Journey Rick Braggs ★★★☆
- The Dutch House Ann Patchett ★★★☆
- Atomic Habits James Clear ★★★☆
- Braving the Wilderness Brene Brown ★★★☆
- Chasing Harry Winston Laura Weisberger ★★☆☆
- Atomic Girls Janet Beard ★★☆☆
- The Year of Less Cait Flanders ★★☆☆
- Little Women Louisa May Alcott ★★☆☆
- Talking with Strangers M. Caldwell ★★☆☆
I also discovered a couple of new author's I liked: Natasha Lester, Sally Thorne and I continued my love for reading Ariel Lawhon, Debbie Macomber (Christmas books only) and Lisa Wingate's books.
If you want to see last year's list, please click here. Now, here is my advice:
Saturday, January 2, 2021
My Goals for 2021
Well, with 2020 behind us everyone is looking forward to 2021 being a much better year. I mean, can it really get worse than last year???
Before I focus on 2021, I want to review my goals from 2020. Obviously, it was a year no one expected and thus, most of my accomplishments did not align with the goals I had set. Honestly, I didn't even focus much on them expect for my book and running tallies (priorities😀)
- My word for 2020 was PRIORITIZE and my focus was supposed to be on: family, well-being/ running, work, reading more and focusing more on the blog. Well, with everyone stuck at home and trying to work and support the children's schooling, sometimes it was hard to prioritize. However, we did spend much more time together as a family and I did focus on my well-being. So I still call it a win.
- We had planned to visit several new cities this year and explore more of this great country as well as travel to Germany. The only new area we explored was Pickwick Landing State Park and Atlanta for a day. Better than nothing ☺
- I read 25 books and listened to 35 audiobooks; thereby, exceeding my goal of 40. You can see the list of all the books here.
- My goal was to run 400 miles but during the pandemic I upped that goal to 700 miles as running was what kept me sane during these past few months. I actually ended the year with 752 miles (1,210 km) and that includes my first ever (virtual) half marathon.
- I did not become a cook or baker during the pandemic and always eating in and feeding all of us sometimes even became annoying. However, I still added some new recipes to my repertoire.
- Let's just say I maintained the blog but still have some catching up to do.
- I was supposed to spend less time on social media but I probably doubled the time I was on there during the pandemic. I'm sure I was not the only one.
Now, on to my new goals for 2021. I did not have anything spectacular in mind when I set those as I'm sure the pandemic will lasts a while longer and it will take time to find our "new" normal afterwards. So, this year, my goals are fairly simple and straightforward. And very similar to last year's goals.
- The word INTENTIONAL came to mind the other day and I think, it will be a great word for this year. While last year, I did prioritize more and we spent more time as a family together and I focused on my well being, I sometimes was not very intentional about it. So I want to ensure that the time spent together is truly quality time and my focus is geared to the one thing I'm doing at that moment.
- Working on strengthening the relationship with my daughter. She is growing up too quickly and often our attitudes collide, so being more understanding and more in tune with her hopefully will build a stronger relationship before the teen year's hit.
- Travel to Germany and also visit a couple of new cities here in the US.
- Focus on bringing the blog up-to-date as this is my scrapbook and hopefully something for my children to read when they grow up.
- Spend less time on social media. I already put my Instagram account on pause and only will update my running account once a day and check it only once in the morning and once at night. This should give me more time to read ☺
- Read/ Listen to 40 books. I have books waiting on my bookshelf and will read more of those than borrowing ones from the library. When exercising, I usually listen to an audiobook so I usually can finish quite a few books that way.
- Run 800 miles, including another half marathon and a 10-Miler this year. But to be proactive and prevent injuries, I will also need to focus more on stretching before running and at least one strength training a week.
2021, we all expect greatness from you and I put my best effort in to reaching my goals this year.
Friday, January 1, 2021
20/20 Hindsight
Unfortunately, first Elliot, then Derrick, and now myself caught the virus (most likely from school) and I spent almost 4 weeks this month trying to get better. It was one of the worst illnesses I ever experienced.
JULY 2020:
All 50 states issued a warning regarding the suspicious packages of seeds being randomly delivered to homes. With the Trump administration pushing for colleges and schools to reopen, many are worried the reopening could worsen the current racial impacts and exposing students and parents to the virus, making the pandemic worse.
We celebrated 10 years of marriage by trying on my old wedding gown and celebrating with the kids, music and a glass of wine on the front porch. We also ventured out and visited Kentucky Down Under, adhering to social distancing, and spending lots of hours at the Y pool and the lake fishing. The children had one week of normalcy, each attending a summer day camp.
OCTOBER 2020:
NOVEMBER 2020: